Thanks. You're right about a lot of it. I know everybody says this,but when she
and I broke up that was all I could think - If only I'd done this,if only I'd
done that. I dragged my feet about a couple of things in the relationship.
Now,not one day goes by where I don't beat myself up over it. I've spent the
better part of two years trying to get her back,to no avail. On an unrelated
note,I shouldn't be surprised that it ended. When she and I were together I had
a dream one night where I saw a picture of her and some guy. I could see her
clearly,but couldn't make out the guy's face.

--- In DreamWalkers@yahoogroups.com, pwdream2k4 <no_reply@...> wrote:
>
> Good morning.
>
> This dream may have been an attempt to piece together what went wrong in your
last relationship. It sounds to me that it was lack of communication. You did
not speak her language. This may have been true literally, but it was also true
in a figurative sense. You didn't understand her and you feel as if you didn't
try hard enough.
>
> Piece by piece, the analysis goes something like this:
>
> Reading the paper over her shoulder is trying to share her interests, to be a
part of her world. You don't understand all of it, and your response is to
voice a wish that you had learned the language. The fact that you didn't learn
the dialect implies a lack of effort, so you are blaming yourself for the lack
of communication. You are back together in your dream, which says that you
think that you might still be together if you had tried a little harder to
understand.
>
> Now, this could possibly be true. A great many relationships break down due
to lack of communication. But it absolutely must be a two-way effort. If you
didn't try hard enough, then yes, by all means try harder next time. But you
need to be aware that your partner must also be trying.
>
> Pleasant dreams,
>
> Peregrin
>
> --- In DreamWalkers@yahoogroups.com, "vampirefan2976" <vampirefan2976@> wrote:
> >
> > Sometimes I find that I have dreams which are broken up into segments. Each
having nothing to do with the other. I am very curious what a recent dream might
be telling me. This is the second part of the dream. I was at home,laying on the
bed with my ex-girlfriend. She was reading some kind of paper and I was reading
over her shoulder. Some things in the paper I didn't understand since they were
written in another language. I said to her I wished I had taken up Visayan (a
Filipino dialect;my ex was Filipino). Then she said something to me about some
guy named Carlos. I don't know anyone named Carlos. I wanted to ask if that was
her husband's name but I was too scared of what the answer would be. Also,my
dream self felt this vibe like maybe she and her spouse weren't together
anymore. In the dream I was so happy she was back with me,but then when I woke
up I knew it could never happen and I was really depressed knowing this.
> >
>