Makes perfect sense to me. Even more so after having read an explantion of it over 5 times. Nothing life repetition to get the message home! I can relate to...
I am sorry, but apart from the graphic description being totally irrelevant to the question... Do we really need this type of infantile acting out in this...
So how do you explain my having found the cure to constipation in going to a library? ...which jes so happens to be the place that I LOVE the most!! While the...
Sun 1 Feb 09, 12:20 pm Hi Gunars, all, One thing I wish is that REBT-CBT would not be so cavalier about acknowledging "set points" such as for mood and...
Hi Lifeforms, Fear of failure is linked to Albert Ellis' IB (One needs to be perfectly competent adequate and achieving to consider oneself worthwhile). If on...
Hi Rex, In 30 years of clinical experience I had to modify my own perceptions of the triumph of nurture over nature. I agree, that we are handed a unique...
hi...some 'old timers' don't believe me when i try to tell them about Old Al's problems at the end..i want to POOP on them...but they are stupid so i just poop...
Hey Todd... The poop stuff was worth it if it brought u back out of the woodwork after all this time! I hope you and all of the other 'old times' on here are ...
What your describing is safety behaviours shy people employ when in public gatherings. Being timid and avoiding socialising with people in general. I imagine...
Gunar; Will & I are the only people who have any power to control postings to this list. Will has been out sick for an extended period of time. I limit...
The problems with "filtered" messages/mails come from Yahoo CO. maintenance and IPSÂ my filter mails because some governments look up for terrorism content ...
On Sun, Feb 1, 2009 at 8:25 AM, Dr. Black Adder Zwei ... I never had a problem with Yahoo in that regard. Gunar has also explained that he discovered the...
A response to Gunar's post (cannot refind it) and his request has anyone any suggestions for dealing with the aftermath of having got rid of someone (if I...
http://www.maniacworld.com/are-you-going-to-finish-strong.html Hope you can show your clients who catastrophise, have LFT, have a demandingness or a human...
I don't remember reading that Ellis actually desecrated himself any of the hundreds of times he walked up to women in the park. For someone to 'behave' as if...
Hey Iain! Good for you! You did great work here! ... From: REBT-CBT-FORUM@yahoogroups.com [mailto:REBT-CBT-FORUM@yahoogroups.com]On Behalf Of onemanclapping ...
nice video ________________________________ From: Shishir Palsapure <shishirpal@...> To: REBT-CBT-FORUM@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sunday, February 1, 2009...
There is nothing cavalier about REBT not acknowledging that we are born with different temperaments. It took Albert Ellis approaching 100 strange (meaning...
Albert Ellis, again in his irreverent vernacular asked, "So when you fail, why do you have to define yourself to be a piece of ****?" I substitute guano for...
... others ? I was rejecting her on the basis of her behaviour and needed to break free from the relationship. Being treated unfairly from time to time is one...
Dear Dr. When I talked to Ellis he made the distinction between unconditional acceptance of others and spending time and energy associating and even thinking...
The book club is starting a new book: "The Now Habit" by Dr. Fiore. Best price for the edition we will be using http://www.bestwebbuys.com/9781585425525 ...
... <mailto:REBT-CBT-FORUM@yahoogroups.com> , "Gunars K. Neiders, PhD" ... natural ... Gunars, I really admire your persitance. I am glad there is someone on ...
Rex, Would you not agree that some personalities/bodily make up is more prone to addictions, but with effort the tendency can be compensated? Gunars _____ ...
This is where preparation for an exercise and a sense of humor (seemingly lacking in this forum), counts. Did Ellis actually expect any of the women to date...
Mon 2 Feb 09, 10:19 am Hi Gunars, all, I think it is very unlikely (and a risky, foolhardy misadventure) that addicts can every learn to drink and use...