Thanks Will... I am not sure where my copy has disappeared to. Some clients tell me they feel lonely whilst others tell me they feel alone so I was wondering...
Hi Will, Rex, Paul, all Thanks for that clarification. I think Dryden is complicating matters by introducing Freudian terms such as Ego into REBT when it has...
Hi Mohinder. This recording is availbale from the AEI in New York. Bah. I have this recording, unfortunatley it is copyright AEI, which prevents sharing. ... ...
Sorry if this gets posted in duplicate. Thu 01 May 08, 8:45 a.m. Hi Will, Lifeformscd, Steve, all, Self-pity is interesting, and it does not seem to be given...
... That was very good! It reminds of an incident I had as a child long before I developed an interest in anything psychological or philosophical. I was in a...
Hi Diana, You wrote:>>He believes that if he had a girlfriend all his troubles would be over.... [ ] Is there something I have missed..... perhaps he is...
... Dam ! :) ... I'm finishing my 3rd year of meditation without a day missed. I have been amazed to learn how afraid I am of my own thoughts and the knee ...
I do really enjoy learning about mindfullness and different types of meditation, I was learning about a type of meditation the other day where the meditator...
... Interesting. I remember Will saying that he likes to do that when he can't break away from being upset. He just notices and labels what he is feeling. I...
On Fri, May 2, 2008 at 7:37 AM, paullucianszasz ... I'm not Charlie, but perhaps I can answer. "Meditation" is a general term like "exercise" it means...
Hi Paul. I dont know. Pherhaps you would be better to answer that Paul. I cannot define so simply "meditation". My point to steves message was that SOME types...
I forgot to finish off what I was saying. Tired after work. Meditation is awareness of internal sensations without critical judgment. In this way, we realise...
On Fri, May 2, 2008 at 10:21 AM, Paul Lucian Szasz ... If logic and empiricism discover that other beliefs fit reality and they make you happier than your old...
Somebody else beat me to hosting their own copy of the Rational Radio Podcast: http://www.rebtresources.info/rationalradio.php This allowed me to replace my...
... Well, the story does illustrate that the way we feel is the way we choose to feel. But it is not very obvious from just the presentation of the story. It...
Notice that the article points out that Prozac is NOT effective for many and this drug has definite side effects. Moreover, 1) this trial was on a very low...
Yeah, if the new beleifs help you to map out your territory better and enable you to function in this territory better, then they are helpfull. ... used in ......
New beliefs help update the older maps (Korzybski). If we have a map that better relates to what we want to get out of reality, then helpful beleifs help...
For anyone who is starting out learning rebt its especially important to make the distinction between 'intellectual insight' (understanding it in your head)...
Sun 4 May 08, 7:25 am Good Morning Paul, all, A few things. First, "unhelpful" is part of the basic definition that REBT uses for "irrational." So, yes,...
Thanks for the link. I tried to order the CD today but unfortunately with shipping and taxs to the UK, it is almost three times the cost of the product. Too...
Tue 6 May 08, 2:05 pm So, in other words, he doesn't like being jealous; his jealous feelings are disturbing him? Or he feels that he acts self-defeatingly...
Sorry, I dropped into this thread late. From this latest posting, I would like to comment. Anyone who is a ladies man, is dependent on the approval of others -...