... But that's kind of like someone who runs alcoholism support groups saying that everyone they've met is alcoholic. People with good self esteem wouldn't go...
... only ... their ... the ... loved, accepted, and doted on so I had a lot of support for the suffering from my parents and then my extended family. We are...
... Before I did my racing car training, I was often working 7 to 11 days straight. The long hours were also an issue. After I came back from overseas, I...
... story ... Anderton. ... films, ... was ... expect ... anyone seen Sum of All Fears? ... I haven't seen the film, but as I recall it's a film about nuclear ...
So when I hear someone say, yea, we argued a lot, but we still love each other, I think of my friend's family, because I think they loved each other and that's...
David: This is *exactly* what my ISTJ wife does.. She *acts like* an ESFJ with other people besides me, then when we're alone, she reverts to her true ISTJ...
David: And this is not the same as not being able to "tune out" the reactions of others.. It is an inability to tune out the inner doubts and fears about...
FWIW.. My wife can be very empathic too.. It's the ISTJ's Fi tertiary at workk.. They seem to automatically put themselves in other people shoes, and feel...
This is a good point - one I didn't make when responding to Glynis' post. I would say the inner doubts and fear of outside reaction is related - the inner...
... bit ... about ... she ... am ... Yes, I agree, you are making more out of it than is warranted.. Hey, we finally agree on something.. Cool.. ;) David (...
... more ... Being an ESTP, my tertiary is Fe, so it has been a problem sometimes when both of us are under stress and we both use our tertiary Feeling, except...
... bit ... about ... she ... I have no idea why you're talking about here.. Could you please explain it to me, Will? David ( who very rarely gets a puzzled...
Will: Ok, let me explain exactly why David's response bothered me. Yes David, I am speaking of you in third person. What bothered me about your response was...
Getting straight A's, Will.. And English was one of my best subjects.. It was a joke.. And I thought you were an Intuitive.. ;) David Yep, that's really...
... it ... Will, Yes, I can definitely relate to being misunderstood. I've felt misunderstood my whole life. That is not something unique to being an NF,...
... interpretation ... I never said that I didn't know why Glynis was upset with me, nor did I ever say or mean to imply that I thought Glynis was upset with ...
Deb: Thanks Glynis, I appreciate your reponse about self esteem. I have to tell you that I don't think there are too many people related to me without it,...
David: I guess Deb I was saying that *sometimes* being from a non- boring family will be enough of a stress on *some* people that they will start to see the...
... it ... I've been calling it "non-boring" because Deb said she came from a "boring" family, meaning they didn't have a lot of the problems that many...
... non- ... they ... problems.. ... out, ... I meant "The answer is yes, if "boring" means a family with few problems.." I think I'm bored right now.. ;) ...
Will, .. But in this case, you were wrong about what I was saying to Glynis Will: Ok, tell me what you were saying to Glynis. (there that darn third party...
... No, you tell me.. You're the one that said I hurt her.. so you must know what it is I said to hurt her.. And just wondering.. did she tell you that I hurt...
I can't help what someone else assumes from something I said.. And what response did I have that caused you to think that I thought someone's feelings were...
... I can't help what someone else assumes from something I said.. And what response did I have that caused you to think that I thought someone's feelings were...
Debbie ... parents who grew up with a lot of positive attention from kids, family, and teachers. Bosses loved me. People like me. The novel Anna Karenina...
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