Paul,

Read the book "What Life Could Mean to You," (especially the
chapter "Family Influences") by Alfred Adler.

Dr. Stein


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wrote:
>
> hi
> i only have one sibling,a female who is 3 years older, and like i
often
> hear i get the impression shes all helpful, in order to control me.
> Im unemployed which makes it difficult to get rid of her influence.
> How do we deal with elder siblings?
>
> thanks
> Paul
>