Now now Judi<br><br>INFJs have their strengths too. They are not weak, though they may appear more passive because of their preference for I. Their dominant N...
Robin,<br><br>I suddenly recalled why I wasn't so influenced by teh MB way back when... only my curiosity for testing in the middle on all but the J/P values....
I come back to the point that when I read the descriptions for both INFJ and ENFJ, I saw myself in both. But I was able to see that there are degrees even ...
INFJs are process people who like to find novel ways of doing things. Yes, frequently shy, retiring and trying to fit in with everyone else. A downside can be...
Robin,<br><br>You get extra hugs from me today for feeding my hungry mind and soothing my frustrations. Whew!! I feel so much better now that I have been ...
Thanks Judi for the extra hugs - it is nice to be appreciated. As for grounding you, feeding your mind,moving you forward - it is what I exist for (it is the ...
Robin,<br><br>I am so fortunate that I have found out where I do NOT belong and where I DO belong all at the same time. Can you imagine if we were playing ...
This was the point of my quest to find self. Actually, my quest was to find the answer to my dilemma as stated above and I found *myself* in the process. ...
So, the mission I set out on has been accomplished and I move on to the next and the next.... The most focused points I have to keep balanced are the decision...
Avoidance had been my choice for the last several years. I had wondered at myself for giving into the fears, but now I realize that I had no clear view of the ...
Robin,<br><br>This is really interesting: I have now heard privately from four members of the INFJ club. They are bewildered, confused, and lost. They can't...
Robin,<br><br>There is no need to apologize; it is our discussion that makes this forum interesting and our understanding more complete. Misunderstanding is...
Hesham,<br><br>Your kind words bring a warm glow to me this chilly Monday morning.<br><br>I feel that I fly with the eagles in this forum and supporting and...
Ah yes, I see where you are coming from. <br><br>You ae absolutely correct that it is only an indicator and therefore reported type may be false as only the...
See you thought you were a seagull - flapping lazily around, bored - but you are an eagle, doing what comes naturally to you, soaring high on the thermals of ...
Robin,<br><br>You finally have me nearly speechless in my attempts to thank you for your generosity of friendship and support.<br><br>I can only say that...
Hey Judi - it's what we do. Nothing to get effusive about. After a while for an ENFJ, it is like breathing - can't help it. But thanks for your friendship; you...
Robin,<br><br>I was fascinated back in school when I first learned about "reference groups." Ever since, I have made mental notes of those groups where I found...
Like you Judi, I lacked reference groups until I was 14-15 years old. It has made me quirky and independent. But it is fantastic to meet people who are ...
Robin,<br><br>To say you brighten my day would be a tremendous understatement. :)) If waiting all these years for just the right reference group brought me...
Robin,<br><br>Here's an interesting thought...question...which relates to Luscher.<br><br>Based on brown being a choice representing home/safety/health, have...
Well when I am stressed I crave brown but it is usually in the form of chocolate! (or a rum and coke). <br><br>But seriously if I am really super stressed I...
Hi, Anne! :)<br><br>Yes, chocolate is definitely in the "brown" food group...at the top of the list. I thought I would spare everyone my favorite obsession,...
This is one of the difficulties I have with the short Luscher (maybe the full test overcomes it) is that brown does very little for me at the best of times....
Now there's a thought Anne - chocolate! However, I prefer citrus jellies (especially Haribo). <br><br>I agree about being really very truly stressed - nothing...
Yum!<br><br>Are citrus jellies anything like jellybeans? We have something called "Jellybellies" here. If I ate too many of those, that's what I would end up ...
