Appreciation and support are critical. Many of us "believe in everyone but ourselves" and so need encouragement. We also need to feel valued, useful and ...
Why is it that ENFJs are driven to develop others? What gives them the ability to motivate others in the face of adversity even when they themselves are ...
Give her nice words and compliments (I can't say that'll make her open up, but it will help her keep liking you, which can't hurt!) I agree with inchtalla: ...
Totally. I couldn't tell you why, but I wouldn't have it any other way. I don't mind one bit giving up something for myself to help someone else. I think it's ...
I would have to agree that the desire to act as an "enabler" (one that seeks to help others through personal growth) is a natural instinct for the NF ...
For those of you that are ENFJ's out there, what do you see as the shortcomings of being that type? I'm looking for things that wouldn't be obvious to the...
One tends to fall into the trap of self-sacrifice by hoping that they will stop taking advantage. Because of the optimism one is unlikely to give up even on...
Being overstretched and unable to make decisions - both happen regularly. Also highly prone to guilt if things go wrong (always blame self first then analyse...
I love being around people and talking with them, but for some reason I have a problem with the social part. It is hard for me to make friends. I am mostly a ...
This is very common amongst ENFJs: it is a matter of trust and depth of relationship. The personality type means that we get by very well socially and enjoy ...
This is far too complex an issue for any real answer in this space. There is a great deal of divergence of opinion. Some would see defects in personality as...
wow you are really into mega theory aren't you. Another massively complex question.<br><br>Within MBTI it is largely assumed that the cultural effects are ...
hi!<br><br>well,I work as a file clerk in the film library of a hospital.sigh...it's so boring!LOL!but I am,if all goes well,going to school in the spring to...
Woo hoo! Hi Inchtalla (I can't remember your name, or if I ever got it)... No one owes anyone an explanation, the important thing is that we're all here and ...
Hi, I just found this forum. I'm ENFJ so I thought it was pretty exciting. Except that no one is posting, which is too bad. But I'm going to break the ENFJ ...
Hey Remy<br><br>I'd just about given up on this club so to see your post is great.<br><br>I'm sorry things have been so shitty for you recently. You have so ...
Hi Lynne and welcome to the deadest club in the universe (almost)!<br><br>I'm an occupational psychologist who works as part of teh senior management team of a...
Hi, well I am an ENTP, and that is interesting that you find yourself needing efficiency, that is a NT thing, but I know you want to an ENFJ to answer. ...
Hi everyone. I am a new member and only recently convinced of my ENFJness, even though I've been fascinated by, and a student of, type and temperament for...
hi there<br><br>welcome to the deadest club on yahoo. No life as an ENFJ is not easy but is one of the most rewarding types as you find your interpersonal ...
Hey everyone!<br><br>What's going on around here?<br><br>This club can actually work because here we can help each other out. Nobody can understand an ENFJ...
Hi Folkes:<br><br>First to Mariela, I apologize if you did not get my message to your recent response. I did reply, however, I don't see my response. If you go...
