Yes it is habit forming and I wanted to share something that happened today. I went to a building supply store to get some lighting for a house I am building....
Thanks for your response, Steve. I'll give that a try. So far, I've been just taking a deep breath, and relaxing my entire body on the slow exhale, and...
When your hanging with friends, become active in the moment as in hear , feel , see what is going on around you. Ask open end questions in which others...
Okay. Two things. Your goal to feel warmth and connection with everyone is unrealistic, especially right now. Start with feeling that with one group of...
Thanks, Dave! That makes a lot of sense. I'll give that a shot. Obviously, I wasn't talking about walking into a random room and being connected to everyone,...
I didn't mean connecting with everyone at once. I mean connecting with everyone in your life. Start small, and work your way up. Also, you're making the...
³If you could keep me somewhat anonymous that would be cool² Š..Yes I GET THAT ALL THE TIME! I want to share this with all of you. With all this talk of...
OK I looked at this and I see several bits of missing information. One- When you say you see no sliver of connection, what exactly are you doing? Are you...
Well folks we are now setting up the London Seminars for 2010. They will be in late April or early May. Here is our plan so far. 3 seminars on 3 weekends. Our...
I am a bit confused about this. Clarification is appreciated. Suppose I define a spot in the space around me to drop things that are no longer important in and...
... Hey, I see it differently. By setting the anger aside you're foremost clearing the space between you and them, so everyone can take a breath again and go...
I anchor confidence all the time before radio and TV interviews. Or if I am going into some sort of setting where I am unsure of my settings and I want to...
Thank you for your response, Bart. it is certainly a good thing to clear the anger between us, but I am still confused about what happens in the "no...
One could also use the imagine, of using the toilet as in flushing the waste away. I think the way you describe it is more politically correct :) ... From:...
Stop thinking so much. :) You are worrying about something that is unimportant. You are so focused on "what happens" that you have gotten yourself stuck on it....
Hi Tom, I am honored to have the guru himself answer my question! ... I have been thinking about your response since the morning. Now it seems to me that the...
I have a meeting next week with my boss to go over my low sales results. What is the best approach to use to get them (2 of them) to give me more time to get...
Hi Folks, So far we have 3, 2010 seminar dates scheduled for London. April 17, 18 April 24, 25 May 1,2 While we have not decided which seminar and in what...
Hi Tom, Thanks for taking the time. ... Either, depending on context. Like if I'm approaching a bus stop and there's someone there, I will do the exercise to...
... OK I don't understand this at all. I can't tell what is means. If you are not noticing them better then you are missing huge chunks of the skill. As I see...
... Yes, it most certainly does. For a long time, I've been chipping away a the distance, to minimize the size of the leap that I need to make. But really, I...
In my never ending quest to remain unemployable I have been having a great time! Yes folks one of the downfalls/benefits of doing what I do is that no company...
Yes, follow up is also a major problem for me. But when you're up to your ass in alligators, it is difficult to recal that your intial objective was to drain...
OK here is what I think you need to do. First you need to really identify what you problem is. Do the math. How much time are you spending prospecting for new...