Mary, Mary quite contrary How does your fear grow, within your shell, they give you hell. You believed it so hard, you tripped and fell. Bandages for...
Chris, I'm one of those people who can have someone dial me as a wrong # and we get together for coffee or be waiting at the traffic light for the "walking...
Nick, Just a quick thought... Tom's 3d mind video set is the best thing on the market today, for the money, period. It's easy to learn, fun to use, and very...
Great Post, Dave :)) ... I have discovered that avoiding painful emotions causes them to persist. And it is the unowned resisted pain, that needs to heal. For...
Hi Mary, This is still easy. You've built some really good boxes for yourself, and that's great if you like living in those boxes. You seem to be trying to get...
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Hi Tom, This is cool, I made a change just by listening to this. Hans ... From: <essential-skills@yahoogroups.com> To: <essential-skills@yahoogroups.com> Sent:...
Hi Richard, ... I know you mean well, but please don't tell me what I do and don't know. Mary is starting to get everso slightly pissed off. And if you want to...
Mary, Well I think the best thing would be to write down some possilbe resource states, and then once you have a list, pick which one feels best. If your not...
All: I have a employee that is failing to live up to the expectations of his job. He has demonstrated performance degradation over a period of time. This...
Hi Tom, Can you elaborate more on this please. This sounds like Deepak, we're born perfect, but somewhere on the way something went wrong, :) I know that...
Hi Tom, Regarding viewing & listening to video/audio files in the Member's Area, I have the newest version of Macromedia flash loaded on my system and yet I am...
Jeff, and all the others, I really appreciate your help and advice, my sometimes impatient tone of my posts not withstanding! I have been reading, pondering,...
This isn't really NLP, but the only thing that I could think of is to tell him that you like him andf that you really want things to work out with him, but...
Hi, Do you have any of the tapes ES sells. Knowing what you have would help me answer better. Hard reality, you're not there to be friend, counselor, etc....
... I think if I want to be good at establishing rapport, I am supposed to be able to have that ability. When I choose to use it is entirely up to me of course...
Mike, The true reward for us is hearing what kind of results you have been getting as you go out and play with these new ideas, so let us know! Jeff ...
As far as I see it, my options are to either (a) let her know how angry and hurt I am, by walking up and telling her directly: "I'm really hurt and angry with...
Hey Group, I moved this discussion to the essential skills board. I think of the 3-D mind as a tool that balances things out, so yes you may get some states...
Hi everyone, I woke out of bed really, really angry again, at something that has been bothering me a long time. For a number of reasons, this is not healthful...
Stop. Stop trying to have a relationship with her. Stop thinking about her. Neediness is repellent, and like it or not you are repellent. If you don't stop, it...
I guess that I did need to hear that. But still...I'm amazed by how quickly it all went downhill. We got off to such a nice start too. My head is spinning... I...
Fred, I repsonded to you under "I'll try my best here". Hope that helps. ... expectations of his ... time. ... (although ... opinion), ... industry ... He is...
Mike, Get the 3D mind tapes! As far as your anger, I think you just need to move on. You seem to still be attatching a lot of importance to your interactions...
... If you did that, what value does it bring you? Will it make your anger go away? decrease? increase? stay the same? What would you expect her response to...
... Why thank you. :) ... I like a lot of what Richard said in his reply to this post, but I think I can phrase some of it in a less offensive way. The...
Thank you again. Mike's subconscious talking now: "Honestly, I feel like a loser that she doesn't want to talk to me. These sorts of things don't happen to ...