... This a a combination of experience and connection. How I use it depends on the situation. Some people like to be dominant but if you go subordinate to them...
Hi Tom! You're absolutely right about learning about "skills" in books, but it's in real life that you get to use them. That was my hope in joining this group....
... post ... take ... won't ... The Best Thing That you can do is to just try it. Decide what you want, and then pick one of the 3 positions. Then as you are...
... OK, I can't resist. I know this is slightly off-topic from the question at issue here, but as a dancer myself, I can't not comment on this ! Dancing is so...
Is there anyone here who has been on an ES seminar or has ES DVDs and lives in the Boston area? I would like to meet up and practice both on each other and the...
... Depressing isn't it. I'm noticing the same thing across the board. Of course, it might be a good sign in that a lot of people are getting away from the...
After reading many posts to all the web sites that Kim and Tom have set up, there seems to be a pattern. It appears to me that most people are waiting for...
I hear it time after time. ³ Tom, you donıt understand. My problem is different because....² The truth is that everyone thinks their problem is special....
My Problem is Different Essential Skills - http://essential-skills.com/ ===================================================================== I hear it time...
Because the past only actually exists in your mind, tainted heavily by your current state. and as we all know, the mind is a terrible thang, so lets get...
Norm, you said a funny, there is hope for you after all, now that your not special any more how does that make you feel? Your not going to start wearing...
No, I do not think so Tim. But I keep watching that dam program as I expect that I will see you on it any day......It is also nice to know that I am not...
It's only little, but it was important to my work today. I had a situation where a supplier was being offered £15k of business, yet for various reasons they...
Hey yall I used the skills well yesterday at a networking event I organised and hosted. One of the people who attended was a stunning blonde who was a graphic...
... This is what this group is all about. Real world usable skills. You have to do your part though. That means that you have to contribute by asking questions...
Anchoring and Calibration Video http://essential-skills.com/site.php/spgs/read/eblog Here is a short demonstration of calibrating to an elicitation. The shifts...
Very interesting to see myself. But that relaxed state sure can't be good for my back :). Erland ... From: Tom Vizzini To: 3D Mind ; Self Empowerment ;...
Hey everyone I just had a thought....you guys think it would be possible to go to a gas station and use these sets of skills to influence the guy behind the...
Hi there, I wanted to ask what are the best ways to really connect with new women you meet, right from the first moment, or minute? The context can be also a...
You hit the nail on the head there: connect with women ...'just as you would do with any other human being you want to get close to or be friends with.' They...
... This is a great goal. I think everyone has someone or some type of person that they have trouble talking to. It could be your boss or a woman or even...
Hi all. For the last few months I've been putting in some practice with anchoring and rapport. I'm finding all the various stages much easier, especially the...
Morning Steve, I use the skills daily, but I have already established the out come that I am looking for. You stated that when you use the skills for a job...
... Hi Steve, Nice to see you again! What you are talking about it the exact reason that we are having the boot camps in Atlanta and London. In the Essential...
... I want to! Heh - how cool would that be? Unfortunately it will have to be next year's seminar for us given prior commitments this year. So instead I think...
Hey Norm, Good to hear from you! A couple of questions. 1stly I know that you use these skills in work (if you can seriously still tell me you call it that!)...
I was watching I think interview magic... no.... maybe .. yeah that's right I was watching a video of Tom's on the es website a couple of days ago, and he...