Despite what you say below, I'm wondering if you'd go so far as to say that we teach people how to treat us. I say the above cos I'm 'testing the waters' --...
Finding the differences in how people think is always a fascinating topic. Your statement isn't very clear though. What do you mean by "we teach people how...
... Please don't misunderstand me, I have no opinion either way. I would just like to know how far your reasoning goes: would you also say that a baby has...
My question is how would one be able to keep a conversation going when meeting someone new, when it appears theres not much in common between the both of you....
If you can't find anything you have in common and there really doesn't seem to be anything, then you shouldn't care. Find out what it is that makes it so that...
(I'm glad you have the best advice on this list firestorm.) Matt Take all of that advice and use the anchoring, rapport, tonality, trance, and especially don't...
Maybe I have been doing it for a while without really noticing. But today, I caught myself using an anchor. I was talking to a client and reach a point of...
http://tinyurl.com/5ob7ht That's the link to my original post in this thread. It gives an idea of how I see the subject of "we treat people how to treat us". ...
hence...the most natural thing in the world! Amazing how people think that it is such a surreptitious and manipulative thing! It happens all day amongst all of...
Hi Matt, Thanks for the updates, your exploring both you and your skills is cool to be a part of. Twenty Twenty http://www.2020unleashed.com PS: Sounds like...
Well I just did it and I never insulted anyone. I just asked questions and the guy who owned the list imploded. So here is the story. I get a message from...
Hi Tom, Nice post mate. Very nice post. I am leading a course that lasts a whole year, and this month we are exploring "Renunciation". It's very powerful to...
Hey guys, Now the time has come. I am done with my Master Thesis, at least the written part. And as I had announced in my answer to the "What's your next step"...
im applying 3d mind on my problem in applying for jobs. I have trouble going out and doing that. I have intellectualized and understand my situation. But i...
A couple of problems. First you have not clearly identified what you want to do. Applying for jobs is too vague. The 3D Mind group is the best place for this. ...
Tom I waited to post this till after the election to avoid the political "stuff". I watched the PBS Frontline program on the election twice. The second time I...
Are you scared yet? The world economy is down and this is the time you really need an ADVANTAGE New Video http://essential-skills.ning.com/ [Non-text portions...
Hi Tom, I thought I would respond to this actually. There are the usual things like "comfort zone" and taking risks/risk avoidance one can mention. However,...
Hi Richard, I am sorry but you are too much in your head about what doesn't work for you instead of making it work . Stop writing and start doing something for...
OK that's probably not the choosiest of topic's I could've used, but it's true. For no reason I can think of I just had a dream where I was at a conference...
Perhaps Firestorm. The real point I wanted to get across was not whether 3D Mind works- I've seen others make it work. I can't do that. It's as simple as that....
I would agree with all of this accept for one thing. You have not even begun this SLOW process. There is nothing wrong with moving gradually. The problem is...
Richard how about for the next week you just watch when people go into a state and notice if they have a self anchor for the state? I noticed a collegues going...
Not a bad suggestion at all Etienne. I'm better at reading people that I ever used to be, so I can see this being doable. I'll come back to you on it if I've...
Because, Tom, I can't bridge the gap between seminar and real life on even the simplest parts still. Eliciting states does not come natural to me (apart from...
Richard and all, You were talking about making the skills natural and this morning at the park I just saw an example of the most, natural exquisite use of ...
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