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Posted:
2008-04-30 15:36:33 UTC+05:30 For you to be at peace with yourself, you need
to be at peace in each of the multiple lives that you are living.
<http://insights.tickandpick.com/images/postimages/lives.gif>We live
multiple lives in our lifetime. Whereas at a subconscious level we are aware
of it, we seldom look at it from this perspective. We broadly categorize our
activities and environment as personal or professional based on whether it
is home, friends, work or non-work related.
I want you to consider for a moment that the differentiation in your
personal and professional life is not only external but is internal as well;
i.e., you are a very different person in each life. In fact, if you isolate
your personal and professional life and look at yourself from a third
person's perspective you will see two very different individuals.
I would also encourage you to observe carefully and identify the multiple
primary lives you are leading, rather than just classifying your activities
as personal and professional. For example, I live three primary lives; a
family life, a product manager's life, and a writer's life. I am a very
different person in each of my three lives. My focus is different, my way of
dealing with others is different, what defines my success or failure is
different, what excites or depresses me is different and the way I conduct
myself is different.
As a family person my focus is primarily on the well being of my family,
taking care of financial and emotional needs, making sure that my child
grows up to be a fine individual, going for holidays and outings,
celebrating festivals with extended family and friends, getting a life
insurance to help my family even after my death (something that you only do
for your family), building assets for post retirement security, etc.
As a product manager, my focus is on ensuring long term sustained revenue
and growth of my product. Understanding customer needs, competitive
landscape and emerging technologies. Speaking at conferences, listening to
customer complaints, reviewing product bug list with quality assurance and
engineering. Defining the future roadmap for the product etc.
As a writer, my focus is to deeply observe life and people and to share
thought provoking insights through my writings. Interacting with readers,
from over hundred countries, having extremely diverse backgrounds and
cultures. Discussing feedback and comments. Marketing and promotion to reach
potential readers. Learning technologies that help me make my blog more
attractive and pleasant, etc.
For you to be living powerfully, you need to make progress and be at peace
in each of your multiple lives. Making progress in one life at the cost of
others will lead to unrest. You need to balance your time and energies
between each of your primary lives. Identify your primary lives and evaluate
each life in isolation. Do what it takes to be at peace in each of your
life.
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<span>Posted: </span>2008-04-30 15:36:33 UTC+05:30</h5>
<span style="font-weight: bold;">For you to be at peace with yourself, you need to be at peace in each of the multiple lives that you are living.</span><br><br><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://insights.tickandpick.com/images/postimages/lives.gif"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 0px 0pt; float: left;" src="http://insights.tickandpick.com/images/postimages/lives.gif" alt="" border="0"></a>We
live multiple lives in our lifetime. Whereas at a subconscious level we
are aware of it, we seldom look at it from this perspective. We broadly
categorize our activities and environment as personal or professional
based on whether it is home, friends, work or non-work related.<br><br>I
want you to consider for a moment that the differentiation in your
personal and professional life is not only external but is internal as
well; i.e., you are a very different person in each life. In fact, if
you isolate your personal and professional life and look at yourself
from a third person's perspective you will see two very different
individuals.<br><br>I would also encourage you to observe carefully and
identify the multiple primary lives you are leading, rather than just
classifying your activities as personal and professional. For example,
I live three primary lives; a family life, a product manager's life,
and a writer's life. I am a very different person in each of my three
lives. My focus is different, my way of dealing with others is
different, what defines my success or failure is different, what
excites or depresses me is different and the way I conduct myself is
different.<br><span style="font-size: 85%;"><blockquote><span style="font-weight: bold;">As a family person</span>
my focus is primarily on the well being of my family, taking care of
financial and emotional needs, making sure that my child grows up to be
a fine individual, going for holidays and outings, celebrating
festivals with extended family and friends, getting a life insurance to
help my family even after my death (something that you only do for your
family), building assets for post retirement security, etc.<br><br><span style="font-weight: bold;">As a product manager</span>,
my focus is on ensuring long term sustained revenue and growth of my
product. Understanding customer needs, competitive landscape and
emerging technologies. Speaking at conferences, listening to customer
complaints, reviewing product bug list with quality assurance and
engineering. Defining the future roadmap for the product etc.<br><br><span style="font-weight: bold;">As a writer</span>,
my focus is to deeply observe life and people and to share thought
provoking insights through my writings. Interacting with readers, from
over hundred countries, having extremely diverse backgrounds and
cultures. Discussing feedback and comments. Marketing and promotion to
reach potential readers. Learning technologies that help me make my
blog more attractive and pleasant, etc.</blockquote></span>For you to
be living powerfully, you need to make progress and be at peace in each
of your multiple lives. Making progress in one life at the cost of
others will lead to unrest. You need to balance your time and energies
between each of your primary lives. <span style="font-style: italic;">Identify your primary lives and evaluate each life in isolation. Do what it takes to be at peace in each of your life.</span><div class="blogger-post-footer">
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