Who am I? Why do I behave this way? PERSONALITY CLASHES

*Note if you don't want to read all this mumbo jumbo just scroll
down to the links to learn about personality without my summaries *

Personality clashes with friends, family, coworkers, teachers and
politics and more is all to common event that happens in society, it
leaves many over-stressed and bent out of shape and as well as a
cause/ precursor to depression and many other social problems,
nonprogressive arguments, debates, etc.

A great step in the easing personality clashes would be
psychological evaluations becoming more common especially for young
adults after highschool before college, but alas psychology has been
given a negative stereotype, usually from people who are afraid
there is something wrong with them and that a diagnosis would cause
them shame and social embarrassment.
People are told to visit a doctor regularly to stay in good physical
health but what about mental heath, we do have a mentality don't we,
and a personality that is formed from it. Many people avoid any
counseling at all thinking their all grown up and they know
everything and it is those people who most often have nervous
breakdowns or come down with some other psychological disorder and
are forced to see a psychologist for therapy.

Many people run around thinking they are pretty smart knowing how
their bodies work but cannot tell you why they think the way they
think, why they did what they did, and said what they said. People
are always getting themselves in trouble with each other mis-
communicating, mis-understanding. They blame the other person or
make up excuses, some other way to avoid understanding altogether(
well Sh*t happens!). They may even think positive and say I must
carry on but until they understand themselves they will just keep
making the same mistake.

Personality clashes do not have to continue, or at least many them
can be prevented by spreading knowledge and social understanding
that will lead to people, eventually government to build better
social and work environments based on integrated personalities more
than oppressive conformities, understanding that maybe it is not
each others personalities that need to change but just how people
are forced work and live together under inefficient ignorant
government enforced policies.

The Author of the BOOK: Please Understand Me addresses the
importance of not trying to change people but understand them from
his quote
http://keirsey.com/Drummers.html

Remember you are unique one of a kind no other person can learn more
about yourself than are capable, And no other person can ever think
and feel as you do about any subject although there are those who
are similar, it is unwise to expect them to or to be disappointed,
Your experiences are for you do not have to tell. We spend many days
and nights alone and lonely, looking for a soul mate, a partner
this is better achieved when you are at peace with yourself first.
If you don't know how to be your own best friend how can you be
somebody else's?

SO WHY DO WE BEHAVE THE WAY WE DO?
Science may never fully understand how the brain works but is
commonly understood that behavior depends greatly on our
sociological conditioning (how we have been raised and what
personality goals we set for ourselves). as in the social cognitive
perspective of psychology.

The most accepted test for personality assessment it's the M.B.T.I
test
http://www.smc.qld.edu.au/mbti.htm

For a free personality test go to http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-
win/JTypes1.htm

To get further descriptions about personality types go here
http://www.typelogic.com/

For lighter side of M.B.T.I go
here .http://soli.inav.net/~catalyst/Humor/mbtihaha.htm

Go here to see how personality can improve our career choices.
http://www.knowyourtype.com
http://www.personalitytype.com/

Go here to see what style of learning is best for your personality
type. This is vary important in education reform, for years many
have complained about how teaching and educating one way leaves many
brain types making lower grades which becomes a false reflection of
their intelligence and ability in real world situations, but is
still used to gain academic favor and faster climb up the career
ladders.
http://www.oswego.edu/~shindler/lstyle.htm
http://www.oswego.edu/~shindler/16types.htm

Raising children. Yet another social fault is how many Young
parents, Uneducated parents, and Traditional Parents raise children
to become them or try mold them to something they do not have the
genetics, mental or physical aptitude for and become disappointed
and frustrated with their children some even keep having kids until
they get a boy or a girl and neglect the children who are not like
them, or what they wanted , like the Foot ball player who son is a
computer nerd the parent will have to get over it. Or let the
neighbors who are nerds who's son is a jock come over and play
ball. People still raise children as pets not as young learning
thinking human beings. http://www.personalitypage.com/kids.html

different people have different levels of cognitive development it
is irrational to make same demands upon others. Another issue
Education avoids is Memory there are different kinds
Some people are better or worse at remembering mathematical,
English, statistics, events, etc
An the Most praise memory of all the photographic memory which
guarantees you will make a good grade on any test dealing with
memory especially I.Q. Test being, but able to memorize many things
still does not guarantee another praised mental quality commonsense
http://www.baycrest.org/psychology/psychology/program_mem_age_handout
_2.htm

Aging Personality: Typically every generation has it better than the
last generation, but still complains and takes the hardships of
people who lived in earlier times for granted. Many of the elderly
are emotionally scared, stunted personality growth from hardships
faced by a society rather than personal experience the Great
depression for example victims of holocaust also men and women that
served or are serving in the military ability to adjust to civilian
life.(militant personality)vs Civilian Personality. Another
characteristic with some aging personalities is being old fashioned
or favoring a time period where is thought to better times than the
ones lived now. A nostalgia sentimental that something is missing
from the old days and old ways.

IS IT IN OUR BLOOD?
In Japan there have been many books since 1916 written about
KETSUEKIGATA the study of personality by blood
type.http://www.pref.saga.jp/soumu/kokusai/sagasaga/archives/saga9806
.htm
http://www2.justnet.ne.jp/~shozo_owada/index-e.htm

In the BOOK: Eat Right For Your Blood Type Dr Dadamo discusses diet
and life styles for different blood types.
http://www.dadamo.com/
http://thenaturalhealthplace.com/BloodTypes.html
http://www.kindredspirit.co.uk/articles/5625_eatright.asp

WHO ARE WE?

We as humans are multicellular organisms that live for just a
limited amount of time, floating on a dirt ball among countless
other planets in a sea of infinite space. some or us are trying to
figure things out before they die, some trying to control have power
before they die and others are trying to have as much fun as they
can before they die, others even enjoy causing trouble. Humans can
be a little bit of each at different times in their life cycle
according to their personality.

I hope this information has help you and I thank you for your
interest in groups like these keeping an open mind and not giving up.

After you have a better understanding of personality you may want to
go further into the individual brain development and Hormones. Get
on the Google search engine and start sufing.
http://www.google.com/

Please spread this information on and help put a stop to personality
Clashes
DRAMA IS BETTER ON TV THAN IN OUR LIVES.

Thank you for reading
Aubrey A Garcia
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/aubreyagarcia/
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/worldreformation/