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We all want to be in a relationship. Sometimes so
much that we stay in them even when they are no
longer healthy or even functioning for that
matter. All relationships have ups and downs and
that should be expected. However, you should know
when a relationship is over and when there is
something left to save. When you can determine
this information then you will be able to tell
whether you should stay or leave for your own
happiness.

The first suggestion regarding relationships in
trouble is to evaluate if there is still love,
respect, and mutual caring in the relationship. If
there is, then there is something to salvage. You
should sit down with your husband or wife and
discuss the problems that exist in the
relationship and how you can both work to correct
them. A relationship is not one sided and it takes
work and commitment from both sides. So, if both
parties are willing to work together to overcome
the problems while showing love and respect for
the other then the relationship is salvageable.
This is the case even after infidelity, money
problems, opposing religious beliefs, problems
with children and other family members. As long as
both parties are willing to work and get the
relationship back on track then there is hope. It
is not guaranteed the relationship will work out,
but it is a good reason to stay and try.

On the other hand, if only one of the parties in
the relationship is willing to work at getting
back on track or if neither parties care about
respecting the other or finding the love they once
had then the relationship should be dissolved so
both individuals can find love and happiness
again. This does not matter if there is abuse,
whether mentally or verbally, or simply disrespect
or not caring about the other individual in the
relationship. When there is no respect, love, or
caring left in the relationship whether on one
part or both it is time to leave the relationship
in search of something new.

This is the most difficult part for many men and
women because they like the security of their
lives, whether it is good or bad, it is something
they know. Unfortunately, it can leave many scars
and deep unhappiness. So, if you find yourself in
this situation don\'t stick around letting things
get worse. Try to straighten them out and if that
is not an option then it is time to pack your bags
in search of something new.



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