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While you can always verbally express your
feelings for your lover, there are more special
ways to express an equally special feeling. It\'s
an old clichi, but it\'s true - actions do speak
louder than words. If you demonstrate your love
and appreciation for your lover through your
actions, it will definitely be more memorable than
by simply repeating those three simple words.

Make something for your loved one. Whether it\'s
food, a work of art, or a simple love letter,
anything that is made with your own hands or ideas
shows that you\'d go out of your way for your
loved one. Even a video of greetings from all
his/her friends on his/her birthday shows that
you\'re willing to make the effort to let them
feel special.

Use the basics, but give them a twist. Flowers and
chocolates may seem dated, but there are different
ways in which you can give them without seeming
unoriginal. It\'s a good idea to pick the flowers
and arrange them yourself. It gives the flowers a
personal touch and shows that you have
imagination. As for chocolates, you can leave a
trail chocolate pieces on the floor, leading up to
the bedroom or the dinig room (where you\'ve
prepared a romantic dinner).

Listen and use what you hear. Most people aren\'t
always direct about what they want and what they
need. You have to listen in for clues. \"I\'m
tired today\" could mean \"Take care of me and
pamper me\", and \"I miss you\" could mean
\"Let\'s do something special together\". Listen
in on what your partner is saying about their
state of mind, feelings, interests, and desires.
These clues usually don\'t come literally, so you
have to read between the lines.

Touching is good - even scientists say so. When
you\'re being touched, special chemicals are being
released in your body. These chemicals heighten
your feeling of pleasure and comfort. Don\'t\' be
afraid to touch your partner, and don\'t restrict
your touching to only the sexual areas of his/her
body. Holding hands, playing with their hair, and
stroking their arms is a good way to reassure them
that you care. You could even learn massage, if
you want to give your partner more pleasure.

If you\'re having a hard time expressing yourself,
feel free to use other people\'s words. Making a
mix tape or mix CD of songs that declare your
feelings is a good idea, especially since your
lover can take it with him/her when going out of
town, and he/she can play it when you\'re being
missed. If your partner is the literary type, you
can compile romantic poems and have them
hardbound. You can even write love quotes on small
pieces of paper and roll them up into a bottle, so
that your lover can just randomly pick one every
time he/she is thinking of you.



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