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Re: building career and family at the same time

Hello everybody and especially Sara,

I read your article in Frontiers in Ecology and Environment (and by
the way discovered this group :) and found it very useful for young
scientists and young mothers/fathers. When deciding to have a baby, it
is extremely hard to know how you will able to continue to work while
the baby will be here. Families are not always visible in the
workplace and colleagues tend to avoid to say that they must leave
their work early because of their children. Most of my colleagues also
waited to have a permanent position to start to think to a family, so
they had their first child around 35 years old. I am 26 years old (so
will probably be the youngest mother in my lab), have finished my PhD
this summer and I am pregnant (3 months). I will try to find a post
doc starting 2-3 months after my baby will be born. I must say these
three last months of pregnancy have been extremely hard considering
my work (I am finishing my papers on my PhD). I could not at all work
8 hours a day, because I felt very tired, sick all the day and only
could sleep a lot. I don't know at all how it will be when the baby
will be here, but I feel it more secure since I read your opinion (the
message is finally : yes, it is possible to be young scientist and
having children, and other parents experience it).

Do other mothers have experienced difficulties with their work during
the pregnancy? How did you manage to continue, and how was it
perceived by your supervisors and colleagues?

Thanks

Flore



--- In scienceandfamilies@yahoogroups.com, "sescanga" <sescanga@...>
wrote:
>
> Hello,
>
> I'm a Ph.D. candidate and the mother of a 2 year old. I'm writing up
> my dissertation while taking care of my son at home--with help from a
> babysitter 3 mornings a week. It is very inspiring to read the
> thoughts people have posted.
>
> I'm writing an article on the balance of career and family to be
> submitted to Frontiers in Ecology and the Environment at the end of
> the month. My article is based on feedback, obtained through
> informal conversations and a score of answers to a formal survey,
> from other ecologists at all stages of career. I finished my draft
> yesterday and was perusing the literature to see what others had to
> say about this topic, and found Carolyn's article (2007, Bulletin of
> ESA), and then joined this group.
>
> The topics that are of most interest here (and in Carolyn's article)
> are those that are also of most interest to the people who provided
> feedback for my article. It seems as though a lot of these issues
> are pretty universal, and don't have easy answers. In developing my
> article, I was encouraged to see that both men and women shared a
> keen interest in the topic.
>
> Members of this group might also be interested in the articles
> Science has compiled on the topic:
> http://sciencecareers.sciencemag.org/career_development/previous_issue
> s/articles/2800/scientists_as_parents_feature_index/
>
> I'm planning to cite Carolyn's article in my article in the hopes
> that we can perhaps use it as a second jumping off point for further
> fruitful discussions in this group.
>
> Sara
>





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Hello, I'm a Ph.D. candidate and the mother of a 2 year old. I'm writing up my dissertation while taking care of my son at home--with help from a babysitter 3...
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Hello everybody and especially Sara, I read your article in Frontiers in Ecology and Environment (and by the way discovered this group :) and found it very...
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Oct 14, 2008
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Hi Flore Thanks for sharing your experience! It's amazing that you are through your Ph.D. and only 26 years old - congratulations. It feels very uncertain...
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Oct 16, 2008
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Hi Everyone, I just read Sara's article and joined this group. Sara, thank you for writing the article! It feels wonderfully reassuring to find other scientist...
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Oct 16, 2008
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Betsey, We're at the same stage of our research--I have two chapters done and will defend this spring too! You must have had some experience bringing your son...
sescanga
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Oct 18, 2008
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Hi Sara, I did bring my son into the field when he was about one and a half and he's been out with his dad catching birds. He loves it and he tells his...
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Oct 22, 2008
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Hi Flore, I'm glad that you wrote into the group and congratulations on your pregnancy! Carolyn's thoughts are very similar to my own. Like her, I also send...
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Oct 18, 2008
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I am curious if anyone has heard of two half-time people sharing a tenure-track position? I once worked for a city government agency in which there were 2...
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Oct 18, 2008
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Sure, I know a married couple who job shared "one" position, but that's kind of problematic, because the tenure criteria tend to be higher for both faculty...
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Oct 20, 2008
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I have some friends who share a position. One of them discussed the pros and cons with me a few years ago. Apparently you don't really work half time even if...
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Oct 20, 2008
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Hi all! First, I want to say that I really appreciate this forum. It is very inspiring. I have a 14 month old daughter and I am in the middle of my PhD. It...
Maura Sullivan
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Oct 21, 2008
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Hi everyone I'm happy to see some new posts and I wanted to share an article that a friend emailed to me regarding a new book that targets some of the issues...
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Oct 22, 2008
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Hi everyone, How fun to read posts about what people are doing! I thought Sara's article was extremely well-written. One of the problems I've had with some...
Alisa Ramakrishnan
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Oct 21, 2008
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Hi all - I'm glad to see that this group is up and running! It's encouraging to hear your stories and see how you all have made furthering your careers and...
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Oct 21, 2008
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Hi Everyone, I'm a proud father of a two year old boy and have another boy or girl on the way any day now, while doing my postdoc, finishing up publishing my...
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Oct 22, 2008
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Hey Ryan, It's great hearing from a Dad! And that feeling of being torn between work and home is a universal one for working parents. Maybe not so much for...
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Oct 23, 2008
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Alisa, my son has asthma and allergies as well, and it definitely adds another dimension to the balancing act. It is a topic (like the field work...
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